Oprah Winfrey View And Advise On Men

HERE'S WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO
SAY ABOUT MEN :

If a man wants you,
nothing can keep him away. If he
doesn't want you, nothing can make
him stay. Stop making excuses for a

man and his behavior. Allow your
intuition (or spirit) to save you from

heartache. Stop trying to change
yourself for a relationship that's not
meant to be. Slower is better. Never
live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy. If a
relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends". A
friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't
settle. If you feel like he is stringing you
along, then he probably is Don't stay
because you think "it will get
better"You'll be mad at yourself a year
later for staying when things are not
better.The only person you can control
in a relationship is you. Avoid men
who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women.He didn't
marry them when he got them
pregnant, why would he treat you any
differently? Always have your own set
of friends separate from his.Maintain
boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak
up.Never let a man know everything.*
He will use it against you later.You
cannot change a man's behavior.*
Change comes from within. Don't EVER
make him feel he is more important
than you are...Even if he has more
education or in a better job.Do not
make him into a quasi-god.He is a
man, nothing more nothing less.Never
let a man define who you are.Never
borrow someone else's man.If he
cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.A
man will only treat you the way you
ALLOW him to treat you. All men are
NOT dogs.You should not be the one
doing all the bending...Compromise is
two way street. You need time to heal
between relationships...There is
nothing cute about baggage...Deal with
your issues before pursuing a new
relationship You should never look for
someone to COMPLETE you...A
relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals...Look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn
out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you
sometimes...when a man always know
where you are, and you're always
readily available to him - he takes it for
granted Never move into his mother's
house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't
fully commit to a man who doesn't give
you everything that you need.*Keep
him in your radar but get to know
others. Scared of being alone is what
makes a lot of women stay in
relationships that are abusive or
hurtful: Dr. Phil says You should know
that: You're the best thing that could
ever happen to anyone and if a man
mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good
thing. If he was attracted to you in the
1st place, just know that he's not the
only one.They're all watching you, so
you have a lot of choices.Make the
right one. Ladies take care of your own
hearts...