Flavour is hot and widely adored by his fans especially the ladies. he has been linked to some ex-Beautiful Queens. Flavour who was once linked to dating former most beautiful girl in Nigeria, Anna Banner, Namibian beauty and BBA winner Dillish Mathews declares that he is still a single man and searching for love. He said categorically that there's no woman in his life at the moment despite the fact that he has a baby mama, Sandra Okagbue who had a baby girl for him in September 2014
In an exclusive interview with Stella Dimoko, Anna Banner who got tired of people calling her all sort of names finally revealed that, she has broken up with Flavour, the reason for the breakup, why she decided to keep her pregnancy, her plans for the future and much more.
Anna you went on a rant on Saturday and your posted meme suggested your relationship with the father of your child is troubled. Do you want to talk about it?
First of all, Flavour and I are no longer together. Secondly, my post has/had nothing to do with Flavour. It was just a beautiful write up that made sense to me and I decided to share it with my fans.
You and Flavour are no longer together? When did this happen and why? Pardon my asking.
Yes we are no longer together. I made this decision recently. I spoke to myself and decided it was time to move on and focus on my future and career.
Did you convey your decision to him, what was his reaction?
Yes I did, we are both cool with it.
Why did you decide to become a baby mama at a young age?
I never decided to become a baby mama, I just fell in love. I fell in love and got pregnant unexpectedly for the man I loved. I had never gotten pregnant before and i was scared of abortion. I decided to keep my baby no matter what, I never tried to hold a man down or force marriage on anyone with my pregnancy. You know in life, the hardest decisions always turn out beautiful. I don’t regret keeping my baby one bit. She is my greatest achievement in life so far. I fall in love with her every second of the day.
Anna Banner and daughter
You knew Sandra Okagbue and Flavour were dating and she was even pregnant for him. Why did you nosedive into the relationship with him knowing all these?
I never knew Flavour was with another woman while we were dating. We started dating way before ‘Golibe was composed’. He never mentioned/admitted he had any relationship ties with anyone even after rumour had it that he was dating someone else and she was even pregnant for him. I believed him. I confronted him again when I heard she had put to bed and it seemed true. He accepted after much talk but unfortunately I was already pregnant, never knew i was pregnant until I was one month gone. What was I supposed to do? Take out my precious child? Hell no. I believe God sent her to me for a reason.
So you see, it was never my intention to break anybody’s relationship or come in between two lovers. I just never knew. For those of you out there judging and persecuting me for something you know nothing about, let me ask; Are you better than I am? Is it okay by God for you to Judge me when he has forgiven me all my sins? I made an adult decision at a young age and I am so proud of myself for keeping my baby. People always say I am competing or fighting with someone all because of a man. Really fighting and competing? That’s too much energy. Seeking for a man’s attention is never/ has never been my thing! I’m not done seeking for God and my daughter’s attention.
People always refer to me as ‘husband snatcher’ but please that is not the case. Many of have been victims of love and I am sure we all know that when a woman is deeply in love, she believes everything her man tells her. I am not a husband snatcher, I was just naive of a lot of things and everyday I ask God to give me wisdom to see well and make the right choices.
Is there some kind of competition between you and Sandra?
No I am not in competition with anyone Stella and no there has been no confrontation and i don’t see that happening.
Anna and her baby girl
You say you and Flavour have broken up, are you both still friends for the sake of the child you have together?
I and Flavour are still very good friends. Chinedu is a very nice person with a big heart. We talk about almost everything. I respect him a lot because he is a good person. He has been an awesome father to his child and I respect him for that. He goes extra length to make his daughter happy. He has a beautiful soul.
What are your plans now for the future; do you plans to further your education?
Yes, I plan to go back to School and I plan on a whole lot of things. I won’t say my getting pregnant put a setback in my plans because my baby is the best thing that ever happened to me but i have plans to return to school soon. The future is bright for me.
Do you have any regrets whatsoever?
None whatsoever, God has been Faithful.
Are you a happy person?
It’s a 50/50 situation. Most of the times, I am happy, most of the time I am not. Most times I have a lot on my mind and most times I am very happy. I think about what I should have done, what I could have done, what I didn’t do right and what i should do right. It’s not a permanent feeling and I will be fine.
My dear daughter, I congratulate you for keeping your baby. Please next time save sex for the marriage bed. If he does not want to waite, then he is not the one for you. Generally many men end up not marrying the girls who gave them premarital sex. Who wants to buy a cow when they are getting milk free?
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